When we are ‘in deep’, wether it’s because we’ve taken on a huge passion project, or because our personal world is inflamed, having someone to hold the vision of our best outcome for us is the difference that makes the difference. It always, most certainly, makes a difference in the quality of life we get to live.
In some instances, it can even mean life or death.
I heard a story yesterday that was very powerful, which exemplifies this point beautifully. A man was out windsurfing for the first time when he noticed he had drifted out too far and the waves and wind were getting quite choppy. Realizing he’d never get the board and sail turned around, he decided to abandon his gear and swim for shore. The waves were too strong now though, and he was getting pummeled and exhausted and was beginning to drown.
He began to yell for help, and as he looked to shore he noticed the only person who was witnessing him was a 5 year old boy. Not having the acumen to run and tell his parents, the child looked around and found a big stick and held it out to the man.
Seeing this, the man surrendered, found strength, and was able to swim to shore. Miraculously, having that kid stand there, holding that stick, and the vision of his best outcome, with pure intention, created the possibility for him to succeed. Because the kid could see it, he could too. It was all that he needed to be able to save himself.
Sometimes, we need others to see for us what we can’t for ourselves, and it’s in them holding that vision for us that we begin to move toward it.
When we are ‘in deep’ sometimes our instinct is to retreat away from others, and to hide our dilemma, yet this will only intensify it. It is vital to look up, reach out, connect and share where you are with a group or an individual who can hold the vision of your absolute best outcome for you, when you can’t. To me, this is one of the hightest reason for why we are all here, and it’s a beautiful example of how we are all connected and how positively we can impact one another when we connect, with purpose, in this way.
While having someone listen to your case is one thing, having a specific person, or group of people in place to take it one step further is the difference that will make the difference. Taking it one step further means getting clear on what you want to create, then sharing it to get others on board to seeing your successes – your potential – your positives.
Surrounding yourself with the right people who can do this for you is what I am ALL about. It’s also what I provide through my one-on-one sessions, as well as an integral part of my upcoming group program.
Here’s why: In addition to how we perceive ourselves and the predicaments we find ourselves in in life, we naturally gravitate toward the perceptions that others hold for us. This is pretty important cause if you constantly share your woes with others, chances are they see you as woeful and this can only create more woe for you! Ooops – something to think about… right?
Sharing your specific desired positive outcomes, in detail, with a well chosen group of like minded ‘visionaries’ will move you toward your successes, purely because others are holding that vision for you too.
Share yours with me in my comment box below: What vision can I hold for you, which by doing so, will move you closer to it?!
:: GET GOIN VISIONARIES ♥ Tancie
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